(Part 2) Top products from r/instantkarma

So you assume they are unreasonable and can't be changed and have their mind opened, just like they have certain assumptions about you? Sounds like both sides have some pretty strong biases and boxes they have put the other side in. But yeah, if that's your perception then I guess violence is the only answer for you.

But it honestly just sounds like you're just as much in need of a person to talk to and reason with as the racist guy in this video.

People can absolutely change, and be reasoned with, but yes, it does take more effort than throwing a punch does. I hope you can open yourself up to that possibility some day. If you're interested, below are a few suggestions of stuff to read/listen to by people who have been pulled back from, or pulled others back from, that kind of bias and racism.

Unfollow by Megan Phelps-Roper (or her [TED Talk] (https://www.ted.com/talks/megan_phelps_roper_i_grew_up_in_the_westboro_baptist_church_here_s_why_i_left.Megan/discussion))
NPR's Interview with a former Neo Nazi Christian Picciolini
NPR's Interview with Son of KKK Grand Wizard Don Black, Derek Black.
Accidental Courtesy: Daryl Davis, Race, and America

Strong to the Bone

See the book "Biological Exuberance" for dozens of examples of long-term same-sex relationships in the animal kingdom. The name of the book is the code phrase used by researchers to mean "gay" back in the dark times when being gay was considered a mental illness.

https://www.amazon.com/Biological-Exuberance-Homosexuality-Diversity-Stonewall/dp/031225377X

You absolutely need to read "The Death of Expertise" by Thomas Nicols. You are a big bright shiny example of all of his arguments.

https://www.amazon.com/Death-Expertise-Campaign-Established-Knowledge/dp/0190469412/