Top products from r/sexadvice
We found 6 product mentions on r/sexadvice. We ranked the 6 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the top 20.
1. She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
William Morrow Paperbacks
2. Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Models Attract Women Through Honesty
3. Philips Norelco Bodygroomer BG2040/49 - skin friendly, showerproof, body trimmer and shaver
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Shaver needs to charge for 24 hours before its first use3 Dimension pivoting head allows the shaving head to closely follow your body's contours for the ultimate in skin comfort on your bodyHigh performance trimmer has rounded blades and combs to prevent scratching the skin. Select from from 5 lengt...
4. Pre-Seed Fertility Friendly Lubricant, Lube for Women Trying To Conceive
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
Fertility-Friendly Personal LubricantIsotonic and pH balanced to mimic your body's naturally fertile fluidsHelps support sperm qualityGlycerin Free; Natural FeelingDeveloped by doctors; Used by fertility clinics
5. Trojan Pleasures Extended - Extend Your Pleasure With Just A Hint Of Numbing Agent 12pk
Sentiment score: 0
Number of reviews: 1
Climax control lubricantHelps provide greater staying powerMade from premium quality latex
6. SureGuard Queen Size Mattress Protector - 100% Waterproof, Hypoallergenic - Premium Fitted Cotton Terry Cover - 10 Year Warranty
Sentiment score: 1
Number of reviews: 1
100% Waterproof - Top protection against perspiration, bed wetting, liquids and stains; 10-year quality guarantee (NOTE: For six-sided protection, buy a SureGuard Mattress Encasement).Hypoallergenic - Blocks dust mites, allergens, bacteria, mildew and mold - For ultimate allergy relief, buy together...
You are much more normal than you think, and your problem--no matter how embarassing--is quite common. Here is a story to illustrate what I'm talking about. If you don't have time to read the whole story, here is a good quote from it:
>To be blunt, it fucking sucks that everyone seems to be having sex but me. The idea that so many people just don’t care about it–and yet nobody seems to want to do it with me–that really hurts. As a general idea, I think it’s fine. I don’t see any moral problem with it. I think if I could, I’d have casual sex as much as possible. I think people need to loosen up about judging others’ sexual habits.
OK, well...a few things. Most men struggle a great deal finding a partner willing to have sex with them. I am married (and very lucky in this respect), but I have a few male friends in their late thirties who are single. One of them last had sex two years ago. The other, as far as I know, hasn't found anyone who will sleep with him since he broke up with his girlfriend over three years ago. Guys who are tall, good-looking, charming, or in the vicinty of women who aren't picky may well have as much sex as you think they are having. But they probably aren't.
So I want to give you two pieces of advice. The first is that you will have sex by pursuing the kinds of relationships that lead to sex. That sounds self-evident, but ask yourself if you are doing that in earnest. If you are pursuing a woman who has made it clear that she isn't interested in physical intimacy, for example, then acknowledge this and set your sights elsewhere. Don't be afraid to commicate sexual intetest, either. Here is an excellent dating advice book that tells you how to do this.
Second, just because you are unable to find a willing parnter at the moment, that does not mean that you cannot have sexual feelings or act on them. It's a bit of an open secret, but the platform I am using to communicate to ypu right now is one of the best places to find amateur pornography online. If you are not opposed to using pornography, then I encourage you to take advantage of this fact. Learning how to soothe yourself sexually in the absence of a parnter is one of the most important skills you need to develop to make it as a guy today, so please consider this advice and confront any feelings of guilt or shame that it might inspire.
Lastly, be patient with yourself. Set goals that aren't simply experiencing sex and work toward them. Enjoy yourself as you do. You are wired for pleasure, as well as disappointment. Which one you experience more of, believe it or not, has much more to do with the decisions that you make more than the judgments that other people make about you. Best of luck. I know this sounds trite, but have fun. I'm saying it because I mean it.
My SO is similarly sensitive, and loves "Pre-seed"....it's intended to be used for folks who are trying to get pregnant, because it's gentle enough not to kill the sperm.....it also seems to be gentle for sensitive users.
http://www.amazon.com/Pre-Seed-Personal-Lubricant-Gram-Applicators/dp/B004382GWK
I bought a waterproof mattress cover that lives between my sheets and my mattress topper. It doesn't crinkle or anything, and it has protected my mattress from multiple women who are in the same boat as you.
I'm pretty sure this is the one I have.
If you want to read more, check out She Comes First by Ian Kerner. It's focused on oral sex techniques but has a lot of helpful information about the anatomy involved. It's also good to learn as much about giving good head as you can early on. You're young, start learning early and avoid falling into bad habits.
In my opinion, this is the best tool you can buy for grooming all over the body.
Philips Norelco BG2040/34 Bodygroom 7100 (Packaging May Vary) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0037HP9OA/ref=cm_sw_r_other_awd_LZhNwbSRRB8Q4
I had this problem, and trained myself with a desensitizer...
I recommend these