Reddit reviews Aeotec WallMote Quad, Wireless Zwave on Off Switch, Z-Wave Plus Enabled, 4 Zwave Button, 16 Scene Wall Switch with Remote Control, Work with Z Wave Hub

Any zigbee or zwave wall button.

https://www.amazon.com/Aeotec-Aeon-Labs-ZW130-WallMote/dp/B01NCEJAOD/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1519484260&sr=8-3&keywords=zigbee+button&dpID=31Gdf7LqzwL&preST=_SX300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch

Aeotec by Aeon Labs ZW130-A WallMote Quad https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NCEJAOD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_LccSAbVFT0NQH

This works great if I understand what you are asking

I just ordered one of these to play with. Would meet your needs but over kill possible. I understand they come in a double also

This guy maybe? https://smile.amazon.com/Aeotec-Aeon-Labs-ZW129-WallMote/dp/B01NCEJAOD/

It has a rechargeable battery but I assume you could just leave it plugged in. It has a MicroUSB connector.

I'm assuming you don't already have a switch in the place you'd like to add one? In that case, a zwave remote is your best bet. If you want something that looks like it belongs on a wal, this would be a good option. If you just want a cheap solution, a minimote would also work.

You need a switched module (not lamp) and it will handle the fluorescents just fine. GE smart switch with a remote should do the job.

You don't have to rewire anything. One of your light switches is the real switch, and the other is connected to that first switch (not to the main power) Install the GE module at the real switch location, and install the remote at the other, it uses the same wiring.

If you're not sure you can tell the difference, or are concerned about doing a true 3 way, then you can use 1 GE smart module, and velcro an Aeotech Zwave remote near the other location to control it remotely.

Switch

Remote

Aeotech Remote

Aeotec by Aeon Labs ZW130-A WallMote Quad
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NCEJAOD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_xLhIAb01C1JFD


ZRC-90US, BW8510US, by Remotec, Cert ID: ZC10-15100007
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016YTTIVW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_MMhIAbWNA3TM2

do they work with their own stuff, or is it home/ smarthings compatible?

these look like they are hot only switches.. I'm more looking for a faux switch basically something that tells the hub. hey turn that light on/off

edit2:
Looking for something like this but a simple switch/dimmer for 1 scene

https://www.amazon.com/Aeotec-Aeon-Labs-ZW130-WallMote/dp/B01NCEJAOD/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1506113001&sr=8-1&keywords=wallmote

If you don't want to change the wallplate, Zooz (and GE) make a toggle switch that works on z-wave.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01A3SBTM6

https://www.amazon.com/GE-Wireless-Lighting-Control-14295/dp/B06VYCFXT4

The zooz works with existing 3-way switches without having to buy the add-on that GE does.

You can get z-wave remotes as well:

https://www.amazon.com/Aeotec-Aeon-Labs-ZW130-WallMote/dp/B01NCEJAOD

In that case only the Aotec buttons come to mind as a replacement to the smartthings button, I have the nanomote and I very rarely have missed presses, and only because I take it with me.

If it is permanently fixed and in range it shouldn't have issues, other than not looking like a gang switch

I guess the Aeotec wallmote sort of looks like a switch, if you squint a little.

Aeotec WallMote Quad, Z-Wave Plus Wireless Wall Switch, 4 Button, 16 Scene Remote Control https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01NCEJAOD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_l8DPDbCW26G19

Related items to the rescue:

Looks like a switch, only one button, cheaper.
Insteon 2342-242 Mini Remote Switch, On/Off (White) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C5RML94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_w9DPDb5GHG660

Or this