Reddit reviews Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve

That's a talk by Matt Hussey, author of Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve.

He's a columnist for Cosmo, and is listed as a "dating expert" for the Today show. In short, he's a handsome face who writes dating advice books for women who read traditional "women's magazines" and watch daytime television. The audience at his talks is a self-selecting group of women looking for the secrets that will make a man fall in love.

I haven't finished this book yet, but so far, it looks really good:

https://www.amazon.com/Get-Guy-Learn-Secrets-Deserve/dp/0062241753/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1474257235&sr=8-1&keywords=get+the+guy

Give it a try.

Edit: Also, I shot you a PM

Here are some books I suggest.

https://www.amazon.com/Get-Guy-Learn-Secrets-Deserve/dp/0062241753/

https://www.amazon.com/Its-Your-Move-Play-Game-ebook/dp/B007ZFPIFK

They are both great!

Matt Hussey wrote a book called "Get the guy", which is aimed at single women, but I think it has a lot of important messages about independence, self-worth, and confidence that could have some relevance to your situation. Hussey also has a blog with a "keep the guy" section that might be more applicable.

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Guy-Learn-Secrets-Deserve/dp/0062241753