Reddit reviews Helping Your Husband with ADHD: Supportive Solutions for Adult ADD/ADHD

> asking him to buy milk means he naturally took forever to buy a ton of random crap, he needed help putting it all away.

I thought "bet he's got ADHD"

My ex had all 9 symptoms

He also came home very late at night because hyperfocusing at work is way more fun for him than suuuuuper boring housework, no matter what burden it's placing on you.

This vid was interesting

He got (I think) this book - Helping your ADHD Husband in a hilarious attempt to "get me to do all the work" because as usual, he just read the title and made shit up. I read the book faster than he did, it was just horror stories about how women's lives are a nightmare.

And from the sounds of it, your life is a nightmare :( After you watch the vid and take the quiz, it might be a good idea to sit down and go through all the ways his ADHD manifests and makes your life harder, and what it means / how much it hurts you every time he's late, forgetful, unreliable.

We set up clocks, calendars, apps, chiming reminders etc.

He had 14 other mental problems so I had to bail...

But good luck.