Reddit reviews National Hardware N222-984 3147BC Panic Snap in Nickel,1" x 4-1/2"
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Spring loaded sleeve is for positive locking and quick release in case of an emergencyCan be opened under load; Snap is highly resistant to rust and corrosionSwivel eye eliminates tanglingStainless steel springNon-rising pinStainless steel springSwivel eye eliminates tangling
I bet the folks at /r/bdsm would have some ideas. Rope is an inexpensive but unwieldy way to tie someone up, and he's got to learn the knots, and then when you're done it takes time to untie you. If something goes wrong you want to be able to get out quickly!
With a little forethought you can get a setup that's a little easier to get in and out of. Use nylon climbing harnesses or leather thigh restraints strapped to your legs just above the knee. They should have a D-ring or O-ring for clipping in; at that point you just need nylon webbing. If you set it up right, something like a ratchet strap can be used to tighten you into position by sliding it under the mattress. Now just make sure you've got one or two panic snaps in the loop, so if you need to get loose quickly, you can.
For the edge of the bed position, find a way to bring your knees up to your chest, and/or secure your ankles to your wrists. A spreader bar attached to your ankles and wrists can secure your legs in an immobile position; then if he likes he can also use the vinyl webbing to secure you to the bed where no amount of struggling will get you loose. This position will spread you open and it's great for oral (eating your ass or pussy) and nice slow deep fucking (vaginal or anal!). If you want to try getting fucked with a plug in, or getting ass-fucked with a vibrator or dildo inserted, this position will leave you absolutely at his mercy.
Just make sure you get a safe word, and go have fun!
...and if it turns out that the tying down really does it for you (or him, or both) then you can go get an inexpensive set of restraints (wrists, ankles, collar, etc.) at Collar Factory.