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Part IV
Are mothers' issues really invisible?
Mothers' issues lack visibility in mainstream society as a feminist question, and within feminism... almost completely.
So when it comes to mothers, our choices are too often between "individual women's rights but let's ignore mothers because they hurt feminism/they are too complicated/they invited oppression by choice/they're not really oppressed" and "all women must be mothers to put them in their place, and all mothers must be embodiments of angelic nurturing self-sacrificing womanhood". BOTH these positions buy into patriarchy and strengthen it.
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Where Mothers' Issues Stand Today
The mother-centered feminist movement is growing, but slowly. Blogs like Blue Milk, activist groups like MomsRising, and even some traditional media outlets are starting to get the ball rolling in the right direction for once (remember that article in The Atlantic about "Why Women Still Can't Have It All" and the many thoughtful responses to it? That was AWESOME).
What feminism can/should do for moms:
My plea is basically, MOAR PLEASE. Let's keep the momentum going. In particular, let's focus more attention on mothers' issues on the big online feminist sites which have become the loudest voices for feminism in our generation.
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heres some quotes from leading feminists
>"The nuclear family must be destroyed... Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process." -- Linda Gordon
"Being a housewife is an illegitimate profession... The choice to serve and be protected and plan towards being a family-maker is a choice that shouldn't be. The heart of radical feminism is to change that." -- Vivian Gornick, feminist author, University of Illinois
"We can't destroy the inequities between men and women until we destroy marriage." -- Robin Morgan
"Marriage as an institution developed from rape as a practice." -- Andrea Dworkin
“In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is rape because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent.” — Catherine MacKinnon
"All sexual intercourse even consensual between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman." -- Catherine MacKinnon
"It is clear that the women's movement must concentrate on attacking this marriage. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of that institution." -- Sheila Cronin
"In order to raise children with equality, we must take them away from families and communally raise them" (Dr. Mary Jo Bane, feminist and assistant professor of education at Wellesley College, and associate director of the school's Center for Research on Woman).
"The end of the institution of marriage is a necessary condition for the liberation of women. Therefore it is important for us to encourage women to leave their husbands and not to live individually with men.... All of history must be re-written in terms of oppression of women. (from "The Declaration of Feminism," November, 1971).
An example of an entire book the the issue
Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mum
Article talking about the juggle between motherhood and working saying its unequal. IMO very flawed arguments about "equality" in the family dynamic.
Joy byrant choosing her career over motherhood, which is all good
The vitriol and tone of this one is off putting
The good works and movement of feminism are dying. Choice? what year is this. A woman can go into any career shes interested in if she works hard (everyone needs to work hard to excel). many options of contraception, and an alarming rate of abortions increasing as well. what is not a choice nowadays? A woman wants to work? Do it, excel, improve the world. but there has to be a realization woman have an amazing magical superpower that brings new life into the world, and should be treasured. Theres even a separation within the groups now, just look at the prolife women being kicked out of the women march. This is not all women, but its growing and turning into something else.
This is nothing new and has been growing for years.