Reddit reviews The New Psycho-Cybernetics

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J'aime bien ce bouquin qui l'avais bien aidé dans un moment difficile et que je relis de temps en temps :
https://www.amazon.fr/gp/aw/d/0735202850/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?__mk_fr_FR=ÅMÅZÕÑ&qid=1519131834&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=New+psycho+cybernetics

[This] (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0735202850/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0735202850&linkCode=as2&tag=westheadline-20&linkId=R4UAPJHKTEC7CFS4) has helped me a lot through emotional scars.

Try these books:

http://www.amazon.com/New-Psycho-Cybernetics-Maxwell-Maltz/dp/0735202850/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1293190801&sr=8-2 - This one teaches you that the way you act and what you are capable of is largely based on your self image.

http://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1293190916&sr=1-1 - This one helps you to understand a lot of stuff about your masculine nature, and how it relates to female nature, and how the two compliment each other. Ignore the spirituality based explanations though, the real explanations of male vs female nature is rooted in evolutionary biology.

The first book is pretty long. Just reading it won't do much. You have to go back over it after you've read it and do all of the mental exercises. I'm only starting to do that now, but I have heard other people have improved their inner game by doing this.

This book isn't about game or getting laid, but yet after reading it I had an epiphany: game isn't about women, it's about me. Game used to feel like me vs women, like I had to master them. Now I realise my only enemy in getting good at game is myself. It is myself, not women that I need to master. This is the same with many things in life: running is about the runner, not his opponents or the track. Weightlifting isn't about the weights or the other competitors, it's about the weightlifter himself.

He who masters himself will reach his full potential, and no one can do more than that.

:)

Also, I wish I would have read This book When I was 18. Would have saved me a lot of time.

A whole lot, actually. Way more than can be said in this tiny box. You obviously have a very strong desire to change something about yourself, so I'm sure that you'd be willing to put in the time and effort to research making the improvements on yourself. My advice is to read The New Psycho-cybernetics by Max Maltz, edited by Dan S. Kennedy ( http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0735202850 ). The book is entirely about developing your self image in a manner in which you see fit for your own self. He speaks specifically about overcoming the issue you raised here, along with the underlying reasons that come with it.

Edit: I a word.

This book helped me a lot many years ago to gain a lot of confidence in myself.

New Psycho-Cybernetics

Read that book : https://www.amazon.fr/New-Psycho-Cybernetics-Original-Science-Self-Improvement/dp/0735202850

You know that cheesy, SNL skit where the guy stands in the mirror and says "I'm good enough.....I'm smart enough........and doggone it, people like me".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DIETlxquzY



Well yes, it was funny as shit, but it is based on the work of Dr. Maxwell Maltz.


Here's the version I read (actually did the audio version at Audible.com):

http://www.amazon.com/New-Psycho-Cybernetics-Maxwell-Maltz/dp/0735202850

But the original book was this one:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psycho-Cybernetics


If this is indeed an addiction of some kind, then Dr. Maltz claims that by repetitive visualization, and yes, even verbal mantras, you can change your self concept.


So in your case, you would close your eyes, and visualize yourself being in control, and ending conversations with women before they became sexual.


You might also try repeating a mantra like: "I'm in control of my actions, I am not addicted to sex-chats, I am a faithful, trustworthy boyfriend".


I used to use the techniques, and it did help with self-confidence (which was what I was using it for). However, as I've gotten older, I've just learned to stop giving a fuck what people think, and handle my biz. So can't really say I've been practicing it lately. Might pick it up again, as lately I've noticed my personality has become somewhat negative, and I'd like to change that.