(Part 5) Top products from r/AskRedditAfterDark

If he's willing to let you peg him, chances are high he doesn't care what it looks like because it's attached to you, no matter if it's weird shaped, transparent, colored, or a mold by a famous pornstar.

Now, for the advice.

Size: start off small, I'd say 3-4 inches, maybe 5, average diameter, you don't want to ruin his first experience so soon and scare him out of anal play. Get a good quality one with a smooth texture on it. (Bad sex toys equals not so good sex).

Lubrication: more lubrication equals less friction which allows for smoother and easier penetrations. So don't hesitate to buy a huge bottle of lubricant if you find one, it'll be almost empty by the end of this adventure.

Enemas: anal sex is fun, but obviously due its nature, it can get messy. Enemas will cleanse his bowel of its contents when administered properly. Rear ending is fun when the fender is clean.

Mental Preparation/Communication: the hardest part of anal sex is opening the hole. Make sure he's relaxed, set a safe word, have him let you know if it hurts or if he wants more of you, if he doesn't speak during play, listen t the sound and noises he makes, you'll be able to distinguish between what's good and what's not.

Insertion: when it comes time to invade him, find a suitable position for angle and easy insertion. Don't force it open, let him guide you. Patience is key here because the rectum is a voluntary muscle, but he will most likely inadvertently keep it clenched closed, have him try exhaling a deep breath as you inch it in. If that doesn't work, try this method, I shit you not (no pun intended) it always opens me up: have him pretend he's dropping a big dump in the toilet (if enemas were properly administered, no need to worry about any chocolate droppings), this will cause the muscle to open. Once you're in, wreck that rectum.

Edit: I searched online for the strap-on my girl loves to use on me. If your bf turns out to enjoy being pegged and is willing to push the limit, this toy is perfect for him AND you

Girls I have been with have enjoyed a stinging smack on places such as the butt, breasts, nipples, face, inner thigh, pubic mound, and clit.

One girl really enjoyed having her pubic mound grabbed and pulled while thrusting.

Hand threaded in hair is a go to, you want it to feel like a pull of the head, but not individual hairs. Hand on their face, not gently, use your imagination but don't gauge an eye. Both hands doing the last two things can be real controlling and great for the climax.

Some girls like some slapping to the face as well or fingers in their mouth.

Try to find opportunities during sex to pin her arms to the bed. Careful about putting to much pressure on bone though.

Buy her some fishnets to wear during foreplay and as you get closer to wanting to have sex tear them apart to get to what you want.

Icicles makes an excellent whip glass dildo. Can hold her face down ass up and pound her with the glass part, then stand up and whip her all over. It is a very satisfying product to use. Especially for the price.

Ask her how she feels about dirty talk because you can get really, really raunchy. "Do you like that you dirty, fucking, cumslut?" "How's that feel in your worthless pussy?" "Cum for me, bitch."

Being spanked feels amazing. One of my favorite things is bare-hands on a bare bottom (though, second place goes to this beauty. ) It feels like it looks. Stingy, sudden, and a little sharp. After doing it for a while your ass starts to feel really warm and swells ever so slightly. The longer you do it, the harder and faster you can go, as your body adjusts to the sensation.

As for seeing, people have seen me be spanked. I went to a dungeon with my ex and people came to our doorway to watch after hearing the noises I was making. Good fun. Would do it again.

ha! third largest size is 5.25 inch long 2 inch diameter at widest. kinda big for me at least! i have super tiny frame. lol

Tennis outfits are pretty cute (NSFW)

This post hit home for me as I was in a long distance relationship for a long time.

Logitech HD Pro Webcam C920 is great! It does 1080p wide angle and even has a privacy shutter (at an extra charge)

Here’s the Amazon (US) link:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006JH8T3S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_DiHqDbXE6K1T6

My husband and I use J Lube for anal play. It comes as a powder, and you add water to achieve the constancy you enjoy.

I'd go to a woman friendly sex shop in your area and ask for help. Restraints, this, cock rings, flavored lubes and erotica are what come to mind.

Sure np

The Bare Pair 'Double Team' King Kombo - Body Hair Management System (w/ Exfoliating Glove) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0073YKJHK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_ZadhDbARS1JS8

This is what I use for the balls never had one problem with it. But with any depilatory cream use a tiny bit to test for skin reaction

I reccomend The New Topping Book by
Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy. It's not just a how-to guide, it also explains why to do things. I would start by asking your partner what he most enjoys, what he's apprehensive about, and if there's anything that is a serious, absolute No from him.


Check this thread out too.

Im a big fan of Baby Doll Teddies for myself. This is one of my favorites.

I have never gotten any complaints from my husband ;)

Luxe Bidet Neo 120 - Self Cleaning Nozzle - Fresh Water Non-Electric Mechanical Bidet Toilet Attachment (blue and white) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A0RHSJO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_UuV6CbDVDBX94

Yes, both are suction cup. It was this dildo and the identical model that can squirt "cum lube"

This is what I use. It’s dirt cheap and adjusts from a nice and gentle to very powerful vibration. Obviously not good for penetration, but I like to use this on myself while my husband stuffs his fingers or dick in me.

CalExoticsSlim Teardrop Bullet, Smoke https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00725WFYA?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

This one. I specifically use the curved one.

Or a wedge pillow.

This plus this and lube of your choice, which you WILL FUCKING NEED if you have a fat dick like I do. It'll change your game.