(Part 2) Best pajama sets for women according to redditors

Get a heater for the bedroom that gently spits out warm air so she can expose the lady bits without too much of a chill.

As for your issue with pjs. I don't know if this is going to get you laid, but it's what you're looking for.

https://www.amazon.com/Benefit-Wear-Anti-Strip-Dignity-Zippered/dp/B077DP1136

These come in S to 2XL and are $22.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07C5SYGSF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_TgWCCbS3X30SM

These come in S to XL and are $20

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BKY8FLL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_vkWCCbJNR3KJF

Same for these but they’re pants instead of shorts.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FVWH35C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ilWCCb8G02Z7Wa

Lots more robes with that look are available. Is there a reason you want PJs instead?

This is similar to what I have. https://www.amazon.com/HOTOUCH-Womens-Sleeve-Thermal-Underwear/dp/B076ZJ51FW/ref=sr_1_5?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1520019544&sr=1-5&nodeID=7141123011&psd=1&keywords=women+union+suit+thermal

I had my hemithyroidectomy done a week ago and had never been under general anesthesia before so was also concerned. Pre-op, they gave me a gown, robe, skid-proof socks to wear, put in my IV. I was able to put my curly hair up in a top knot with a silk scrunchie (no metal) so it didn't tangle (listen its the small stuff!). I was walked to the OR (it's not like on TV!), give a hair net to put on, greeted all the surgical staff and then laid myself down on the table (again - SO WEIRD!). The anesthesiologist gave me an IV "cocktail" which felt like I had one too many drinks and then I was out. I came to when I was wheeled into recovery and complained about being woken from a REALLY good sleep ;)

The surgery itself was not nearly as bad as I thought it to be (and you read a lot of the negative experiences here). My voice is fine, my parathyroids are fine and I feel so much better than I did before. As someone else stated, the sore throat is 100% the worst bit of all of it. I didn't have to stay overnight but I only had my right side removed but I wasn't sure if I would go home so things I recommend:

- Have some good numbing cough lozenges (I had Cepacol: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01FWS60RG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1) or throat spray (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004L4XC3I/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1) and keep chewing ice, it'll help.

- Do not be afraid to ask for the good drugs from the nurse - it'll help to sleep a lot of the time.

- Wear comfy clothes. I was able to dress myself and lift my arms up to put things on (but they were super easy stretchy & loose clothes) but my sister had to help tie my laces as bending down wasn't as easy.

- Get some PJs that button down: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0772S54GH/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

- Comfy slippers/skid-proof socks: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01M24S9OF/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o05_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

- Comfy pillow to prop yourself up for the first few days - its easier to sleep sitting up higher as there's less pressure on your neck. I could sleep lying flat and on my side after 4-5 days.

- An ice pack that can stay strapped around your neck. I wrapped mine in a pillowcase first then used a velcro hair band to keep it in place. I got this from Amazon (so it can be used cold or hot): https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07CHLS3B3/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

- Silicone scar sheets for post-op (I can use them in about 4-5 weeks post-op): https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07P5G9PQD/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

- If you're a woman, I got these front close bras so I wouldn't have to lift my arms: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07KKVLP2D/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

- A good thick lip balm. I like this one from Laniege but honestly anything you like will do: https://www.amazon.com/LANEIGE-Sleeping-Berry-Treatment-Qunce/dp/B00VR0Z0I4/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=laneige&qid=1571934520&sr=8-1

- I took my Vicodin, Stool Softener (yeeeep it can cause constipation) with 1 Aleve (it's not acetaminophen) for the 1st 5 days at night only to ease my sleep but I didn't need pain meds after that.

Outside of sleeping a lot (recovering from surgery will do that), I was back to eating well chewed solids on the 3rd day post-surgery but that will all be on personal preference. You won't be able to shower for at least 48 hours so make sure to do that morning of if you can.

Most of all - good luck! You will be OK and the relief from having it out will be well worth it. I haven't had my bloodwork done yet to determine whether or not I will need medication (I know you will since its a TT) but that'll be the tricky part from what I've read. Feel free to PM me if you have more questions!

That's amazing! Thanks for the tip.

Band shirts and gym shorts mostly. Or cute sets like these https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078RGFN2S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_aqKWCb1SZ1613

so there are these pants

this story...

daughter at the age of 5 says to husband daddy what year were you born?

he says 1957 why honey?

She looks at him dead seriously and said WOAH DADDY!!

he got panicked and said What?

she said but daddy that was the year Christopher Columbus sailed the ocean blue!

we still tell this joke to this day!!

you need these for your tough days

daughter was doing her spelling home work today and says i am done i said i dont think that you are let me check she says

Im Not YOKING you!

yoke was one of her spelling words..

i laughed at her and said YOU GOT DAD JOKES!

Son yesterday goes in to shower before going out to dinner

I ask him did you wash? (i always ask them if they have washed) he says yeah i washed i looked at my husband he says what you dont believe him? i said no can you smell his ass? husband very seriously says do you have a lawn mower in your purse? i am going to need it to get past all the hair on his ass.. (son consistently bends over with his ass hanging out of his pants)

son and i were walking through the cemetery after visiting with my brother and i hear music and i asked him do you hear that? he says what? i said the music and he started to get really happy and says its the ice cream truck!! i said really in the cemetery there is going to be the ice cream truck? he said yeah because they are all dying to get their hands on some ice cream!!

hope this helps you smile if you ever need someone to talk to i am here!!

I mean, now that I think about it, technically something like this could be considered a knuckle-high shoe... ;) https://www.amazon.com/Big-Feet-Pajama-Turquoise-Pajamas/dp/B07BH77XDQ

There are plenty of options out there. Look for "Drop seat" pajamas or long johns/long underwear.
Such as these. They have a real drop seat, though I'm not sure whether it would work for all positions or better for from-behind positions.

https://www.amazon.com/Silver-Lilly-Plaid-Piece-Pajamas/dp/B0775CYCMP/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=drop+seat+long+johns&psc=1&qid=1572498054&sr=8-1

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Also, there are positions that work well for keeping both of you under the covers but with your heads above the surface for fresh air. You need ones that keep both of your heads at the same level, and bodies on the mattress. From this article (which I don't know if the article is any good, but the pictures are useful) the spoon, the side by side, and the cross would all work to have both of you stay under the covers. There are also possible variations on each of those, which I am sure you can explore and figure out what tweaks work for you. And btw, if you find the spooning position difficult to get into, start in the cross position (with penetration) and have her shift around into the spooning position.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/53421-the-7-best-sex-positions-to-help-him-last-longer-in-bed-because-really-can-you

After my c section I lived in these pajamas and ones similar to them. These ones in particular are super soft and the bottoms are a higher rise so I was able to have them above my belly button while still covering my butt cheeks completely. The waist band is elastic but also has a draw string in case you need them tighter. The button down top is perfect if you're nursing/pumping. I've had them since early August and wash them weekly and they haven't shrunk and the button holes for the top are still tight, which is nice because the ones I got from Target won't stay buttoned anymore. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 180 after birth and got the XL. I would also recommend high rise underwear. Your hospital will give you mesh panties but get some underwear for when those run out. Congratulations on your baby. You got this mama!
GYS Women's Buttons Down Short Pajamas (XL, Sedate Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075VTD5YG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2llQDbF4H1FG9

I buy soooo much on Amazon. Here are some of my tips:

• Once you narrow down enough within a department/category, there's a checkbox on the sidebar that says "Top Brands." Check that to eliminate most cheap overseas retailers.
  
  
• I also only buy Prime, unless it's a brand/product I'm familiar with (I buy a certain brand of tee-shirt and they're rarely available through Prime). One way around this is that some products are available in some colors through Prime. So you can order that, try it on, and then return it and (if you liked it) order it without Prime shipping in the color you wanted.
  
  
• Use the rows of products labeled "people also bought" or whatever they're called. Scroll through there.
  
  
• If something's on 6pm.com, you can often find it on Amazon with free return shipping. Conversely, if you're willing to pay full price for something, look for it in Zappos, because they have a much longer return period (a year!). If I think I like something but can't decide, I'll return it to Amazon and buy it from Zappos, then keep the tags on until I make up my mind one way or another.
  
  
• This is new but awesome -- when you're returning things, Amazon now has an option to return multiple orders in one box. That has saved me the agony of carrying eight separate UPS packages. On this note, if you're buying/returning a lot, keep the big boxes.
  
  
• Be really careful buying designer bags. I'd say that probably 1/3 of the designer purses I've ordered have shown signs of being counterfeit. Much better to go with Zappos, Nordstrom, Macys, etc. if you're looking for something high end. That said, you can sometimes find amazing deals on certain colors of bags. I've bought purses before that were $300 in most colors and $100 in cognac. But those are brands I know well enough to recognize a knock-off.
  
  
• If you have very small feet, you can find incredible deals on shoes.
  
  
• The best way to look for really good deals if you're just browsing, or for something like running shoes or bras where you don't care that much about the color, is to sort by lowest offer. To do that, look for the link on the right of the screen (in the "other sellers" section) that says "New from $45.00." Not all products have this link, but you can usually find it on one color or another. Here's a product that has that link. Then you can pick the size you want and from the color drop-down menu, click "sort by lowest offer." Then make sure you select "Prime" on the side and also "New." It will give you a list of the different colors with the lowest prices at the top. I use this for high-end bras where I just like the design but don't care about color. Also good for backpacks etc. where there are a billion colors.
  
  
• If you browse a lot, you'll get a feel for the brands that have really good deals. I have great luck with Lucky, NYDJ, Guess, CK, Michael Kors, Natori. Evergreen brands like Birkenstock and Toms are rarely worth it in my experience, because they don't discount deeply (but the shipping is often convenient). The key is (as ever) not to buy something you don't love just because it's a good deal.
  
  
• Stay on top of your returns. Don't let the 30 days go by and end up owning something you hate. Keep the products in their bags and keep the boxes until you know you want to keep something. The "return by" date is the day the UPS label has to be logged into the system. So if something needs to be returned by May 6, you have until May 6 to get it to the UPS store. Get a receipt.
  
  
• Also, don't keep something you don't really like just because it was deeply discounted and it doesn't seem "worth" returning. Free returns are there for you. You might as well pack up that shirt and get $7 back instead of keeping it and feeling yuck about it.
  

I have a pair of these in just polka dots and they are sooooo comfy. For those inclined to pick up this set: https://www.amazon.com/CS601076-2-M-Christian-Siriano-New-York/dp/B01MTYVWQ2/ref=sr_1_2?s=apparel&srs=13667863011&ie=UTF8&qid=1500538696&sr=1-2&nodeID=2376202011&psd=1&th=1&psc=1

Here you go
Looks like it’s actually bamboo rayon (not sure what the difference is) but I would wear this everywhere if it were socially acceptable. I also love that the ties are sewn on instead of being a loose belt that can get lost or tangled in the wash.

Are these kind of what you're wanting?

Buffalo Plaid Womens One Piece Pajamas - Adult Unisex Union Suit with Drop Seat Butt Flap by Silver Lilly (Black/White, Large) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0775JZ68D/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_v4JUDbRY8A6G2

A union suit with a butt flap sounds like it would work.

Amazon :D
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0777JJTLT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_d4tKBbP36E2C9

I found them on Amazon here but at Costco I think I only paid $16 so def check there first

I found these on amazon. Make sure you have penguin selected, they also have owl. I also found a bunch for kids, maybe you could get your mom a kids xl if she’s slim

The pics don't show the flap but the user questions at the bottom say that it does actually open

PajamaGram Drop Seat Pajamas Women - Butt Flap Pajamas Womens, Red, XS, 2-4 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01BCE79NS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_pZRUDbRBKKV4A

Found some similar

Moxeay Sexy V-Neck One Piece Bodysuit Long Sleeve Bodycon Rompers (Small, Red) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017R3HH58/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_MHb1DbGDP8XZE

A Dash of Chic Black Thermal Henley Pajama Romper- Cheeky Shorts PJ Adult Onesie (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07735H2BP/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_1Rb1DbHBFQDD3