(Part 3) Top products from r/Tinder

I haven't the foggiest, and have never used Tinder so can't exactly give you a sure in. But I have to say, you are an awesome dude, coming from a fellow dude. Keep your head up mate, I have low self esteem and some confidence issues but there are people who will find you attractive as you are. If they say so, just believe them.

My girlfriend got me this book and it's helped massively, maybe give it a go!

Otherwise, I just truly hope for the best for you. You've got the attitude and personality, that's what'll keep them around.

It's a great shame that their bios weren't swapped, really. As someone else has pointed out, if you're having that much difficulty knowing how to start a conversation, you need to greatly improve your social skills. I'm pretty sure there is /r/socialskills on here and you might want to consider [How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks For Big Success In Relationships
](http://www.How.com/ to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks For Big Success In Relationships https://www.amazon.com/dp/0722538073/) (Amazon.Com). Good luck!

It sounds like you already know that you don't want to be with this guy forever, but you're trying to make it something it's not because you don't want to be alone. Not saying that to criticize--it can take a little time to psych yourself up enough to end a relationship, especially if they didn't do anything "wrong," but I am 99% sure you'll be happier once you rip off the band-aid.

I get that it's stressful to not be where you thought you'd be at this stage, but would you rather be in a relationship that is constantly disappointing or be single? It took me a while to get my life to a place where I'm genuinely content, and of course I'd still like to find a person to share my life with, but if someone (romantic or otherwise) isn't adding positive emotions or experiences to my life, it's not worth investing my energy into that relationship. It sounds like this guy isn't what you're actually looking for--not saying it's his fault, just that this might not be a good fit, and you're exhausting yourself trying to make it satisfy you.

If you're down for an unsolicited book recommendation, I have one. The title is ridiculous, but it's actually about working on yourself and figuring out what is important to you in a relationship. I can't remember for sure if it's in this book but I think she talks about abundance and scarcity mentalities, which might be helpful, too.

In any case, I hope you have a nice Valentine's day and your dinner goes well!

For that blurred background look, you can get a prime lens on your dSLR. The cheap ones are great, and they make you look like a million bucks.

MIT actually did a study that confirms OP's hypothesis, by the way. It's not just that it's an interesting picture. The top 5% of men had more than double the success of the next top 5%. Researchers called this the superstar effect.

A tarp! That sounds like a whole lotta slip'n'slide fun! Have you tried something like this?

This might help its like 4 dollars.

https://www.amazon.ca/Timing-Everything-Complete-Guide-Cooking/dp/0609802070

This one should do the trick. Quite cheap but it'll definitely get the job done!

Cully, get thee to a bookstore (or Amazon, whatever) and pick up the Dark Tower series by Stephen King! You'll find phrases, sayings, and words like this all throughout the series (and plenty of them are actual words, they are just rarely heard or seen nowadays).

I REALLY suggest getting the revised editions that King released, especially with the first book, The Dark Tower I: The Gunslinger.

Dope-ass Cologne: Diptyque L'Eau de Neroli

Dope-ass Cologne on a budget: Nautica Voyage

Both get me TONS of compliments.

Could provide entertainment for kids birthdays.

https://www.amazon.com/Klutz-Book-Balloon-Twisting/dp/1591746744

> Berries and Creme Starburst

lets talk, btw fancy a trip to australia ? ;)

Wahl. $30 on Amazon. I use one twice a week for the short beard look. I've had it for 15 years.

> I think “suit juice” is the ‘juice’ that accumulates in the suit throughout the course of the race

Nope, but that's a pretty gross image

Basically how the Phineas Poe series starts.

Based on the reviews i would go for this one

You should use this on all the luggage hardware.

It will make an incredible difference. I use it on old bicycles.

here you go

The book, for the uninitiated: Organic Chemistry as a Second Language

Have I got the book for you, op

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0521675995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2EmtDbDDEMPG9

Fixed that for you.

http://www.amazon.com/3-Layer-Height-Increase-Elevator-Insole/dp/8963293157/ref=pd_sim_hpc_7?ie=UTF8&refRID=055QETSMBA022GXN5H8N

And don't give me that bullshit about, oh, it's dishonest. Everything about a woman's appearance is often dishonest. Face paint, high heels, padded bra, spanx.

By the time it's time to take off your shoes and nail her, she'll be too horny to change her mind. Or sit on the bed before you take off your shoes and she won't know until much later.