(Part 2) Best feminine care products according to redditors
We found 944 Reddit comments discussing the best feminine care products. We ranked the 403 resulting products by number of redditors who mentioned them. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
Okay, I'm gonna try to make this as fact heavy and gender neutral as I can, if I fuck up, that's my bad. I'm just somewhat passionate about cups. Usually I'm passionate towards users who have irritation or allergies to disposable products, but honestly as a cis woman pads and tampons ARE way too girly. I can't imagine being a man and dealing with that BS. Sorry you have to.
https://www.amazon.com/Bodybay-Menstrual-Cups-Comfortable-Alternative/dp/B07BBQ6KGW?ref_=ast_bbp_dp
Black and Red. You get two for under $10 (plus shipping if you don't have Prime) and while the packaging is purple and kinda feminine (and the bag inside is purple satin) you can toss all of that and use any breathable bag you wish. I had a knitted camo one for awhile.
Basics: If the stem bugs you, trim it. Just be careful not to poke a hole in your cup, but all of mine are trimmed completely off and work fine.
If its still too long for you even without the stem, or iff the textured sides bug you, turn it inside out. It works exactly the same except is slightly more slippery. Regardless, its easy to use once you have the hang of it.
If you don't have enough fluid flow when you put it of, put it under a faucet for a second. Its enough lubrication for silicone and doesn't have the weird feel of lube.
When wearing, if should be almost unnoticeable. If you have pain or discomfort, adjust it because it should NOT hurt. I frequently forget I'm wearing it, silicone warms to body temperature and so if your cup fits, you won't feel much until its time to empty, at which point it kinda drops down a bit.
You can wear it when not on your period if your natural discharge bugs you. I have no idea if that is an issue for you, but sometimes it is for me and my doctor was clear that as long as I'm using a clean cup (having two makes that easier) I could wear it every single day without issue.
After dumping it, wash with non-antibacterial soap or just wipe with TP or water/TP. At the end of using it, wash it well with soap and water, then soak in Peroxide or boil for 10 minutes. Another option is this thing:
https://www.amazon.com/Menstrual-Cup-Sterilizer-Minutes-Period/dp/B07M5HGTJ6/ref=sr_1_5?crid=1FUH85MSKC74D&keywords=menstrual+cup+cleaner&qid=1568694739&s=hpc&sprefix=mens%2Chpc%2C149&sr=1-5
Its legit awesome. Steam cleans your cup so you could sterilize it while you shower. And not particularly feminine looking, it kinda looks like an electric tooth brush charger to me.
Good luck, man. Hope some of this is useful info.
https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Enema-Cleansing-Silicone-HealthGoodsInTM/dp/B00DTOLP7Q
> Deuteronomy 22:21
The entire premise behind "virginity" in the bible and Quran is that the man and woman have sex on a sheet and the woman is supposed to bleed from hymen rupture on the mix of bodily fluids and then the parents of the woman keeps the sheet as proof their daughter is a virgin.
And this practice is still in place today in some places despite our actually knowing how the mechanisms of human bodies and sex functions and this thinking is completely wrong.
They even sell kits the woman can buy to make sure the sheet looking properly deflowered.
This is how ridiculous quoting Deuteronomy 22 is.
Also Deuteronomy 22 clearly contradicts both the Jesus and the Catholic Church's stance on divorce. The man just has to pay 100 silver pieces and he's out. It also says a man can rape a woman as long as he married her and pays her dad a fine.
And here's the loophole for everyone not living in Israel, it says these rules only apply to Jews living in Israel.
Here you go. Costs ten bucks. You don't have to go for the deep clean unless you're getting into serious play (or he's got a huge cock), just take ten minutes, rinse out the back nine enough that he's not going to strike Texas Tea, and you're golden.
> Sanitary products
If you haven't yet, try the Lena menstrual cup - I love it, it's comfortable, never leaked, and I've saved so much money not having to buy tampons and such.
As the title says! Tell me about your cups, ladies!
I have a Diva cup, but am thinking about buying a Lunette, based on a troll's recommendation on another thread.
I am also curious to see if anyone has tried the FemmyCup? It is a very different design than most, so I was curious if anyone had any experience with it.
https://www.amazon.com/Blossom-Menstrual-Cup-Better-Tampons/dp/B00QULC2QI/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?keywords=menstrual%2Bdisc&qid=1555444403&s=gateway&sr=8-3&th=1&psc=1
I’ve had my eyes on these for a while, but I’ve never had the extra few dollars to buy them. If you do pick me, black and small would be amazing ❤️ you can PM me, if you need, too!
I love mine and refuse to use anything else because I'm prone to sensitivities to tampons/pads. It takes a little getting used to when it comes to insertion/removal but after you get the hang of it it's really easy to use and convenient.
First, you have to know a little about your body. How heavy is your flow? Have you had children? How high is your cervix? These are things you want to know when choosing a cup and there are lots of guides out there comparing cups. For most brands, the small size is for pre-childbirth, light flow, or a low cervix. Large is for post-childbirth, heavier flow, or a higher cervix. Personally, I have a really heavy flow and low cervix and haven't had children and the small works great for me. Here's a great quiz that can help you find the best cup for your anatomy.
Next, there are lots of brands to choose from that vary in thickness, size, and shape. I know I've tried MoonCup (US), Diva Cup, and recently tried the Blossom Cup (which has become my go-to). For a beginner I'd suggest the Blossom Cup as it's a medium firmness, has an easy to grip stem, and is half the cost of the others.
When you first start out you can always do a "dry run" with the cup when you're not on your period, just use some safe water-based lube to help with insertion. Practice different folds. Practice adjusting it to make sure it gets a good seal (which can take a few tries because everyone's anatomy is a little different). Practice removal. It can be a little frustrating at first, but it's just like learning how to use tampons.
For care of your cup you'll want to make sure you wash and rinse both your hands and the cup every time you insert/remove. There are lots of washes designed specifically for cups. After my cycle I always soak mine in hydrogen peroxide for a bit just to help sterilize it before storage. You can also boil them for the same result.
A lot of women are concerned with public restrooms and how to handle that. Keep some menstrual cup wipes or a small bottle of water with you to clean the cup when you have to dump it. In a pinch you can always wipe it out with toilet paper. What's great, however, is that you can wear the cup for about 12 hours at a time without having to tend to it and you don't have to worry about carrying a stockpile of tampons/pads with you wherever you go. For the first few cycles I'd suggest wearing a pantyliner as a backup on your heaviest days so you get used to knowing when you have to empty it and just in case your seal isn't secured well enough (like I said, it takes practice). Again, once you get the hang of it, they rarely ever leak unlike tampons and pads.
Pretty much every woman I know who has tried cups swears by them, including myself. They're safer for both the body and environment.
Good luck and welcome to the cup club!
There are cheaper ones, but you may be buying a substandard material that will stain. I will ask my wife what brand she gets
Edit: She said it’s called Lena cup. The sensitive one
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JX4QUDY/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_i_ADCTDb4K5HNYP
$24 on Amazon
Mom guilt is a total real thing. Don't beat yourself up over things that aren't in your control. I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes at 28 weeks, and then my daughter got diagnosed with IUGR at 36 weeks. I felt so guilty my whole 3rd trimester, I made myself pretty miserable. I kept thinking that I had done something wrong and how my kid wasn't even born yet and I was already a terrible mom. It's not your fault and you are already a great mom! Just do your best.
On a lighter note, here are some things I loved and plan to use again (sorry for the length!)
Please feel free to ask any questions! We are happy to help here. :)
I highly recommend the Moon Cup over the Diva Cup if you want a softer material. But there are tons of reviews on Amazon, so you can figure out what you would prefer. As for which one to chose, I use size B, and you should too if you haven't have kids. I must say that I love the Moon Cup. I used to use The Keeper, which is essentially the Moon Cup but made from latex rubber, but after 5 years decided to replace it with the silicone version, and oh boy, soooo much better. I will never use anything else.
Edit: grammar
I really like preseed. A little goes a long way so I only fill the tube to the first line.
Because of this, I still have a ton of product leftover by the time I've used all of the included single use applicators. Solved that problem by buying some additional applicators on Amazon. These are a perfect fit for the preseed tube.
We only use it during my fertile window for cost reasons.
And leads to products like this
Lily cup one has a loop stem, rather than a straight stem.
This should fix you right up:
https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Enema-Cleansing-Silicone-HealthGoodsInTM/dp/B00DTOLP7Q
File under: additional suggestions.
If you don't already have a "shit bag" you might want to make one up. (Bonus points if you write "blood bag" on it.) Use a small opaque bag like a large make-up bag. I've got a really small canvas bag with handles, which is very convenient when there happens to be a potty with a hook. Put these things inside:
Remember to hand sani before touching yourself all up in there. It's dangerous enough for your crotch's health on playa, no need to be pawing around with who-knows-what on your mitts. The above items should be everything you need while inside the potty.
Remember to pull out your "trash bag" first, so when you're holding a soaked bloody tampon you have somewhere to put it. Do your biz, put the non-potty-safe things in your "trash bag", then take that back to camp or place within your pack trash bag.
Choosing your perfect product is a very personal choice, but here are some good options.
While these are in theory burnable, do you really want to dump all of your dirty toilet bags out into a paper bag and let it sit around your tent until you find the motivation to bike out to a pyre? You do? Good on ya.
My favorite disposable choice. Minimal trash (although they are individually wrapped in shrink wrap plastic, fyi) and very small.
If you haven't already been using one of these, at burning man is probably not the right time to try it out. They are seriously great - although I do always have anxiety about accidentally dropping it into the potty... You just dump it out, wipe it, and pop it back in. No trash to deal with and it can stay in for 12 hours!
Bleeding out of any part of your body on playa sucks, especially when it just doesn't want to stop and is accompanied by the possibility of cramps, bloating, wonky emotions, and general discomfort.
May your playa period be light and your tampon changes by headlamp be disaster-free.
Just FYI, I have brand name ones as well as [these](Dutchess Menstrual Cups Set of 2 with Free Bag - Best Feminine Alternative Protection to Cloth Sanitary Napkins - Post Childbirth Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00PBI86O8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_-dWLAbZV7SYZ5) and I honestly can’t tell the difference.
they are probably called something less obvious like sanitary disposal bags
here are some on amazon
https://www.amazon.com/Scensibles-Personal-Disposal-Sanitary-Tampons/dp/B001PYQE78
I have a condition where I only take enemas, never poo naturally. This is what I find works best... I use an enema bag, you can get them at Walmart, CVS, etc. I also use a small Fleet enema bottle like this. Finally, mineral oil.
Dump the contents of the fleet enema bottle. It's really not important. Fill the fleet bottle to the top with mineral oil.
Fill the enema bag with warm water, not hot. Hang about 3 to 4 feet above you.
Using fleet bottle, squirt 1/2 bottle mineral oil. (You filled it to the top so you're not squirting air.)
Release enema clamp, allow air to escape and warm water flowing.
Clamp, insert, unclamp. Take 50% to 100% of enema.
Immediately get up and defecate.
Repeat if necessary.
I find that this does the job the quickest with the least amount of after-effects. Best if your stools are a bit hard. If they are mushy like clay, you may need to allow more time in your gut.
The longer you hold the water in, the more you'll vacate, generally speaking, but it will take you much longer as well, maybe 30+ minutes. I like being over with it in 5 to 10 minutes, and just getting rid of what's blocking everything else is my goal... I can always do another enema the next day if needed.
This was designed for women, but perhaps it might help at home. I know you couldn't really carry it around for public use, but maybe it'll make the home pee better.
Oh geez that sounds awful. This one has a ridiculous name (seriously, FemmyCycle?) but a nice design - the pull tab is a loop. More comfortable, less poky, and much easier to grasp. https://www.amazon.com/FemmyCycle-Menstrual-Starter-Regular-Cervix/dp/B00NQ9E4B8/
https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Enema-Cleansing-Silicone-HealthGoodsInTM/dp/B00GHJBSOA/ref=sr_1_6_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1479211665&sr=1-6&keywords=enema
That's an applicator for some kind of vaginal ointment, like a yeast infection treatment or a contraceptive jelly
Lube with lidocaine
Enema bottle
Dr. Bronner's peppermint soap
Your butthole is just as much a part of your body as your mouth.
You would put a couple of fingers in your mouth to remove something if you couldn't spit it out?
Well you can do the same thing with your butt!
However, we won't get to that point yet.
First, I would recommend sticking with Metamucil (maybe upping the dose). Drinking plenty of water. I drink at least 2 liters a day.
Now on to the other stuff.
That enema bottle will work wonders for you. Fill it by squeezing the bulb tight and sucking as much lukewarm water into it as you can.
Put a little bit of lube on your butthole, and then a little lube on the stem of the enema.
Take a position like you're gonna pray to allah. Head down, ass up. Very slowly find your little butthole opening and gently slide the stem in there.
Now, reeeeallly slowly start squirting the water into your butt. Only squeeze, do not let the bulb pull water back into the bulb. You'll be cleaning the bulb afterwards, but the focus here is getting that water up your shitpipe. When the water is in there, slowly slide out the enema stem and set it aside.
You might want to distract yourself by redditing, or reading the news. Sometimes people can barely hold the water in for less then a minute, sometimes people can hold it in for a couple of minutes. I'm pretty good at holding it in for 3-4 minutes. You'll get better if you stick with it.
You may feel a little cramping. This is normal. Try to keep it in there.
When you're ready to let loose, hop onto the toilet and let it rip. You may let out gas along with shitlogs and it may be more then you expected. Hang in there. More may come out.
Give a few wipes and then lean into the tub and squirt some dr. Bronner's peppermint soap onto your hand. Wash your ass checks and asshole really well. Take the top part of your finger to the first little knuckle and gently put it in your butt. Wiggle it a little. It'll clean your butthole really well. Towel dry off. MINTY CLEAN ASS!
At this point you may feel the need to shit again. Go for it. Probably only a little bit will come out this time, but it could be more!
Then wash up again.
This next part is another thing you can do, and do it before the enema if you want. Both of these in combo will really help you to feel cleaned out.
You may now be wondering about the lube.
Well, this is a little more advanced, but it might really help you if you're suffering. This is actually a thing that is done in hospitals for severely constipated patients!
The lidocaine in that lube is meant to help numb your ass a bit for anal sex, but there really isn't enough lidocaine for that. The good thing about that lube is that it's thick, and it comes with an applicator to shoot some lube up your shit nozzle.
Here's the part you may not be able to do, but I promise you that I've done it and it works!
Lean your ass into the tub.
Lube up a finger and your asshole. Slowly put your finger in your butt. Wait a little bit. Tighten your butt sphincter, then loosen it (as if you were going to fart or poop). See how the discomfort is less when you relax that sphincter? Well that's how you're going to add lots of lube to your pointer and middle fingers and gently, and slowly slide them up your butt. See if you can feel poop. It may just be stuck. With your fingers still in your butt, push down (like you're gonna poop) and see if the poop comes down a little bit. If you can get your fingers to the side of it, you can help ease it down until you can push it right out of your butthole! Toss it in the toilet.
Keep going like this while consistently pushing down and you feel more and more descending. This is called "digital disimpaction".
At this point, your asshole is slightly stretched, your rectum and anus is well lubed, and you can take plenty of time siting on the toilet letting the rest of it slide out. Your bowel should be adequately stimulated to help move stool down the colon.
When you're done reuse the enema a few times to clean any lube and left over shit and then wash up. Minty asshole!
Don't let your poop back up like that! Also, if you feel like you're going to take a big ass splitting shit, get some lube and gently stretch your butthole out again before you poop.
Best wishes!
I've had good luck with this sort of thing (although not the exact item below):
https://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Enema-Cleansing-Silicone-HealthGoodsIn/dp/B00DTOLP7Q
The instructions recommend the short nozzle for colon douching. That'll work OK for the first pass, but you might try the longer wand for followup since it'll get water deeper inside you for a more complete clean, so long as you insert it gently to not do any damage by poking too hard.
Also myweatheredsoul has a useful link here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/BadDragon/comments/ab1kfo/how_to_clean_your_ass_before_anal_sex_i_found_a/
If I'm on my period (8-10 days!) then I use softcup and for clients. You still have to reach inside but maybe I would work for you or another provider looking for an alternative.
I got these pads for the first few days that are super heavy. I still have some left, I only needed such a heavy pad for the first week. After that I was able to use these regular sized ones. The wings are really helpful in getting everything to stay put, and also the longer ones are good for night-time when you may be moving more. You can also get these pad ice packs, they gave them to me at my hospital and I loved them, but you could also buy some more to have on hand.
We are a 20 minute drive from the hospital and husband will not leave my side, so I'd like to get everything in. I'm a notorious overpacker, too, but I'd rather have something I don't need than have not have something that I do need.
Mom Stuff:
Baby Stuff:
Dad stuff:
Both
I think that covers just about everything. I used travel packing cubes to keep all of the clothing items organized, and I already had several different other travel bags that I generally use when actually leaving town, for all of the "other" items. [edited formatting]
Amazon sells these awesome cup sanitizers that would be perfect for your situation. I can’t imagine it’d be easily to boil your cup in a dorm unless you have a hot plate. I have the one I linked and my co-worker uses this one as well, I love it. Super simple to use and so far it’s worked as well if not better than boiling it on the stove. I always felt like there was a small chance that it wasn’t getting as clean as it could by boiling in a pot but that could just be me. I also recommend a cleanser made specifically for menstrual cups, like the saalt cup wash, I use it maybe once a day during my cycle in lieu of disinfecting. Regardless, I hope this helps!
https://www.amazon.com/Menstrual-Cup-Sterilizer-Minutes-Period/dp/B07M5HGTJ6/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?keywords=menstrual+cup+sterilizer&qid=1565424925&s=gateway&sprefix=menstrual&sr=8-3
Supermarket, with all the "family planning" items.
Edit: Or right here: http://www.amazon.com/Playtex-Fresh-Intimate-Wipes-40-Count/dp/B0094JPUUS
Even Prime.
Ok, time to get gross. Like /u/johnnykaiserblade said, a cleaning helps, but in more ways than just being clean. After a nice warm cleansing, I get super loose down there. Ok, here's the gross part. I have, at times used the shower head to clean out, but usually, I'll dislodge some hidden surprises when I do. Then I have to scoop it up and throw it in the toilet. I've tried the bulb, but it's too small, too hard to fill, and hard to not get air in there. It's also hard to clean. So for me, this worked well: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GHJBSOA
Here is 2 for $28 which seems like a pretty good deal!
They have a [two pack with two sizes!](FemmyCycle Menstrual Cup Starter Kit (Regular & Low Cervix Sizes) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NQ9E4B8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_6YXIBbG2HS27W)
Thank you. I’m also considering Skoon and Lena Sensitive as well. I think my current problem is the rim.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01CJ5BKAM/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8
https://www.amazon.com/LENA-Sensitive-Menstrual-Cup-Alternative/dp/B01JX4QUDY?crid=3QFDSKIHJFA58&keywords=lena+cup&qid=1537289448&sprefix=lena&sr=8-2-spons&ref=mp_s_a_1_2_sspa&psc=1
Why not just get a pack with applicators and clean them really well (boil them?)
Orrr Amazon comes through again
i use this
altho, i eat healthy and poop regularly (with the help of coffee!!) i don't trust that it's totally clean back there. i will flush it out a few times before sex. and because i enjoy getting rimmed, i think it's appropriate to clean before for my partner's sake. the trick is to not go in too deep nor stay in too long. you just want a few inches of it clean not the whole thing if you know what i mean.
from what i read and heard is that it's perfectly fine to use it occasionally and there isnt any real harm. but if you're doing it more than 4-5 days a week then that may be a little excessive. i would recommend only 1-2 a week.
Dutchess Menstrual Cups Set of 2... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00PBI86O8?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
They are awesome. I looked at the date and I have had them for a year and a half and they are still like new. It takes some getting used to, but I never have to worry about having something with me. With the 2 pack, just tuck one in your purse or car, and you're golden.
Sorry I couldn't help with the other tampons. It is awesome cause, and I commend you for that.
It's really amazing to see there are still positive people in this world.
She must use this Artificial hymen kit.
We live in a golden age. You are in luck.
I also offer you something akin to this. I have used them while in costumes, and they are AMAZING.
also grab some period panties or even just the kind for women with incontinence issues, they hold a little leak here and there perfectly without worry.
Also, I went through a few expensive cups before trying this one, and I liked it the best! 2 for $16!
Nice to have one in car or purse because of keto cycles being less than regular.
https://smile.amazon.com/Dutchess-Menstrual-Cups-Set-Free/dp/B00PBI86O8/ref=sr_1_4_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1519307860&sr=8-4&keywords=menstration+cups&dpID=51%252BrRkCLOGL&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch
Bodybay Menstrual Cup，Set of 2 Periods Kit with FDA Registered，Best Feminine Alternative Protection to Tampons and Cloth Sanitary Napkins (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072BMCGNW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Zs5TBb4FY0353
Pretty sure the one I am talking about is bigger if you are talking always brand. They have wings spread out wide over your buttcrack area. Longer in the back than the front by at least 100%
http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI
I'm so sorry. I'll let other people give you advice on the surgery issues -- and I'll read it quite closely, as I'm getting a major surgery soon, too. My surgery is related to uterine ridiculousness, so, on that note, I can spreak to your question about pads with maximum coverage. The absolute best amazing why-did-I-only-just-find-out-about-these pads I've found are these: http://www.amazon.com/Always-Extra-Heavy-Overnight-Flexi-Wings/dp/B002KAL6NI
(I used to love and adore the super thin ones, but I can't use 'em anymore.)
Not sure if this is NSFW, but if you're sensitive maybe.
If tampons are embarrassing then, how about the Moon cup?
Really, I figure it'll cut down on embarrassing leaks, unless the moon cup leaks, then I'm sure ill look something like Carrie. I figure the most embarrassing thing will be figuring out how to remove this when it's full and not have it leak blood all over the floor.
This will be my face if it ever leaks, or I accidentally spill it's contents. (((( ;°Д°))))
Edit: how did I spell embarrassing three different ways and wrong each time?
Edit 2: damn it
http://www.amazon.com/Scensibles-Personal-Disposal-Sanitary-Tampons/dp/B001PYQE78
Review here
http://www.theperiodblog.com/reviews/scensibles-feminine-disposal-bag-review/
The thing that I'm uncertain about is that "light floral scent". Because I'm imagining that floral scent they put on some pads that is absolutely disgusting because whenever you smell it on someone that walks by, the only thing it reminds you of is periods. You know what smell I'm talking about.
I had one just like that, it was a diva cup knock off, but got fed up with the time it took to take it out. I got the femmy cycle because it was leak proof but having the ring to pull on is the best part.
I can speak to Pre-Seed..I think I could get more than 9 uses out of it (just started using it this cycle). I use about 1/2 of what they recommend, and probably could use less. You can also use Pre-Seed like lubricant so you don't need to use an applicator. I like using the applicator because you can get the Pre-Seed right at the entrance of the cervix. I thought about washing and reusing applicators but decided not to because I didn't want to risk the chance of an infection during my FW! One other idea is maybe trying to buy some vaginal applicators online? https://www.amazon.com/Disposable-Applicators-Individually-Threaded-Contraceptive/dp/B0195C8I52/ref=sr_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1512047662&sr=8-3&keywords=vaginal+applicators
They make menstrual cup steamers. Menstrual Cup Sterilizer - Kills 99.9% of Germs with Steam - 3 Minutes and Your Period Cup is Clean! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M5HGTJ6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_QfzBDb5391C04
I use this one and I will never switch back. It’s a little pricey but it’s so soft and good quality. It’s small but holds lots of blood and I just love it. Good luck!
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B072BMCGNW?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title#immersive-view_1567011474360
I’ve used these above, both small and large (I’ve never had kids) and I’ve used a diva cup.
My strings did curl up after a few weeks.
ezmode
You don’t know what you are talking about girl!! It’s a period “disk”, not the menstrual cup you are thinking about!
Check it out: Softcup, 14 Disposable Menstrual Discs (Pack of 2) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00J3714DS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ZRguDb3J7YVPV
Your parents don't seem to have much consideration. What OCD "traits" do you have?
http://www.amazon.com/Always-Overnight-Extra-Heavy-Unscented/dp/B0029NYQ6A/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1346634811&sr=1-1&keywords=thick+sanitary+towels
These ones seem quite thick.
I put up a thread awhile ago. http://www.reddit.com/r/BurningMan/comments/1iv52j/aunt_flo_at_burning_man/
There's a few more from eplaya and tribe.
http://eplaya.burningman.com/viewtopic.php?p=74802
http://burningwoman.tribe.net/thread/05b534d3-af0d-4e67-aa0c-d79c98d4287d
http://burningwoman.tribe.net/thread/15fd8e56-a2a1-46a5-9952-a17588c0c611
I would be careful with tampons. Some people said they were fine with it and some weren't. I was one of the unlucky few who weren't. I would suggest bring a supply of both pads/tampons.
Scensibles are great. They are made espicially for women periods. There are small enough to store in your traveling bag. They have a pleasant scent so you don't have worry about your period/trash smelling bad during the week.
http://www.amazon.com/Scensibles-Personal-Disposal-Sanitary-Tampons/dp/B001PYQE78/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_nC?ie=UTF8&colid=3O5WAGWVS0H1R&coliid=I3R3PCV9AP3L5S
I would suggest to put a mini flashlight on your moon bag, so you can see your supplies in the night.
I forgot to link the cups I bought. It is a rally good price for 2 cups. Like half the cost of 1 diva cup.
Dutchess Menstrual Cups Set of 2 with Free Bag - Best Feminine Alternative Protection to Cloth Sanitary Napkins - Post Childbirth Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00PBI86O8?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf
Charmin are ok. But they're geared towards babies. We personally use Playtex, which are specifilly for bow-chicka-bowow, but that's for BEFORE. Afterwards, what you need is absorption. And in that department, nothing beats paper towels.
I bought these - they're 2 for $9 a year ago and they work just as well, exactly the same actually, as my first menstrual cup, which was the Diva Cup.
I got this one from Amazon and it works well. (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B016Q1EQ24/)
They are reusable. Just try to be careful to only squeeze out on the bulb while it is in you so you don't draw water back into it. I also use sex toy cleaner on mine when finished.
So here is what I was referencing when I said that... maybe this was more so a mistake on Amazon's part? Not sure who is responsible for the info included in the screenshots: https://imgur.com/a/k2z5Hdu
Also, on Lena's site they say:
> Most people can wear either size Lena Cup but choose one over the other primarily based on flow amount, cervix height during menstruation and general physique.
At Lena we do not believe that age and birthing history play a significant role in choosing a menstrual cup. Mothers with multiple births are happily using Lena Small while teenagers, with a heavy flow, choose Lena Large.
>Lena Small is ideal for users with a normal flow.
Lena Large is suited for users with a heavy flow.
— Source
Now I will admit they say that "most" people can use either size and that the size chosen is based on flow + cervical height, etc. but when I was looking at the product on Amazon, I was mostly just seeing the description of the sizes to be based on flow rather than cervical height. I will admit some fault on my part due not being thorough (even though I thought I was) but you can see what I was basing my decision on in those screenshots I linked.
(Here is the Amazon link too, for reference so you can scroll and see the chart in the screenshots if you want: LINK)
I was looking for a link to the softcups to send you, and found that apparently now there is a reusable version!
Original: https://www.amazon.com/Softcup-Disposable-Menstrual-Discs-Pack/dp/B00J3714DS
Reusable: https://www.amazon.com/Intimina-Ziggy-Cup-Extra-Thin-Menstrual/dp/B079JYJBF2
I buy these. They're very conveninent. I have one box in every bathroom of my house and I carry some too. Once you put the tampon there, it doesn't stink up at all.
Yes, testosterone makes your cycle stop. One of the best effects, in my opinion.
Until then, you could use tampons with flushable applicators or, what I personally used, tampons without applicators. A Moon Cup or Diva Cup could also be an option, but I never tried because I was kind of grossed out by the idea. Lots of people think they're great, though.
And, FYI, testosterone is surprisingly cheap, like less than $10 a month, even without insurance. The doctor's appointments can get expensive if you don't have insurance, but testosterone itself is way more affordable than many people think.
For dealing with nighttime leaks, I have found a foolproof leak-proof method. These pads + biker/volleyball/spandex shorts. And I have a waterproof allergy protective cover thing on my mattress. Never leaked at night again.
For daytime, I wear these pads plus black pants that have stretch to them. I also make sure to take ibuprofen throughout the day to help with not only the cramps but I seem to get less clots on days I take it around the clock.
Also, frequent bathroom trips.
I'm usually fine without an enema, but if my boyfriend and I want to something like rimming+fingering+more rimming, I usually make sure to clean up extra well. For that, I use this thingy I got off Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/XHIVAR-Superior-Medical-Materials-Enema/dp/B016Q1EQ24/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1466778470&sr=1-1&keywords=anal+douche
There are a few pads I would suggest for your sister. One package for every day use such as Always with wings and an overnight pad , which helps when we sleep. The directions are on inserts in the packages and she'll be just fine :) If she's cramping I advise advil or motrin over tylenol. You're doing great, big brother!
For $10.99 all your dreams can come true and stay intact [For your shower thoughts ](XHIVAR Superior Medical Materials Enema Bulb (7 OZ) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016Q1EQ24/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_97kCxbY2WAC16)
I've heard of people using Softcups and this is probably what we'll try first (we'll be doing at-home AI with an in-person donor). They seem to be similar to the Ziggy Cup but they are disposable and you can find them in most drug stores with other menstrual products.
I have friends who have been successful with at-home AI. Other than the timing, the biggest key is minimizing the time that the sperm is outside the body. We're talking minutes, so you will still need to coordinate to go through the process in the same place at the same time. If you want to preserve it for longer than that, you will need special kits which are not cheap. So, I can't really think of any benefits of going this route if you have the option of just having sex unless you truly find the idea of having sex that unappealing.
Might try Blossom Cup ! It’s the one I use. It’s very soft and the small is a good size. I used it both as a virgin and while sexually active and didn’t notice a difference. The packaging is pink but I don’t think it references pronouns. It also comes in any number of colors. Mine is black and I’ve had it for a few years.
Maybe it's a marketing stunt for the She Whiz? lol
https://www.amazon.com/Whiz-Freedom-Portable-Reusable-Funnel/dp/B001DTRVTK
Shibari Personal Lubricant - Water Based 8oz Bottle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00G5K7L24/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_wzvFzbHKQYJG8 Doc Johnson Mood - Naughty 1 - Silicone Anal Plug - Small - 3.3 in. Long and 0.8 in. Wide - Tapered Base for Comfort Between The Cheeks - Small - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006MK0RH8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_XzvFzbAV4HPJV Beauty Molly Superior Medical Materials Enema Bulb (7 OZ) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B016Q1EQ24/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_qAvFzbC1JAGH3
I am on the copper iud for birth control and know all too well about heavy periods. There are different kinds of overnight pads. I like the always brand super heavy overnight ones, they almost look like the big ones the hospital gives you after baby lol. But they work wonders and are really absorbent. Here's a link to what they look like on Amazon.
http://www.amazon.com/Always-Overnight-Extra-Heavy-Unscented/dp/B0029NYQ6A/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1451786769&sr=8-1&keywords=Always+super+heavy+overnight. Way to be an awesome dad and get involved with periods, I wish I had a dad like you that I could've been open with them about. Good luck!!!
The original Lily Cup or the new Lily Cup One for beginners ? I have never managed to get a seal at all with the original ergonomically shaped Lily Cup so I gave up on it. Haven’t had the chance to use my new Lily Cup One yet as my periods are often three months apart. Sorry I can’t be more helpful!
i like these... i got these because this would be my first experience with a menstrual cup & didn’t wanna spend a lot of money on a more expensive brand like diva cup/saalt cup & be out of $30-40 if i didn’t like it. they work perfectly & i use a size small:)
never leaked at all & can hold a lot but i also empty them every 2-3 hours even though you can keep them in for up to 12. I sleep with it in as well
This isn't a direct answer to your question but I purchased this very clinical looking kit a few months ago, I like it a lot. Does exactly what the product was intended to do without any fuss or leaking and is pretty cheap.
MABIS Enema, Douche, Medical Enema with Hot Water Bottle, Reusable, Red https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000BH8BL2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_V5i3E5ww7nxiD
I bought this enema bag and this suction tubing as a better tube.
The Parker 61 or most of the open backed cartridges for cleaning other pens fit in the end of the replacement tubing snugly enough to seal. So either press the Parker directly into the tubing or for other pens the cleaning cart (and then insert the cleaning cart as you normally would) and then suspend the bag from the top of your kitchen cabinet nearest the sink and gravity will do the rest. Place the other end into a mug in your sink and walk away while two quarts of whatever you're using to clean it with get flushed right through. One bag will usually do it, my wife let a pen dry out for six months and that took three fills.
That little setup let's me walk away and have my coffee or do something else while the pen cleans itself.
>deep clean
Enema bags (example) work well.
You should get this.
There are cheaper, disposable menstrual cups out there! Can be worn for much longer than either tampons or pads and much better for the environment and vaginal health in general!
http://softdisc.com/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhbyezZaI2wIVDI1pCh2b2gMlEAAYASAAEgIxZ_D_BwE
Softcup, 14 Disposable Menstrual Discs (Pack of 2) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00J3714DS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_YeX-AbR73VNP0
just wanting you to know your options!
Try these out. If it doesn't breath through your mouth or ask here to arch her ass up a little so your nose it not in her asshole.
http://www.amazon.com/Playtex-Fresh-Intimate-Wipes-40-Count/dp/B0094JPUUS
Hope this helps.
-Doc
I decided to try it again ten years after using the Diva. It leaked like crazy. My periods are very heavy and figured it wouldn't hurt to try the cup again. I'd go through a single Super+ on my heaviest days every one to three hours. There are many on Amazon but be wary of fake reviews. This is the model I purchased. I got the large for "assurance".
The cup is prone to leakage but to reduce the risk, I insert the cup, turning it to ensure it's fully open and I "pump" it in and out a few times to create a suction action and seal.
Removal can be messy but just pull it out at a downward angle gently and it shouldn't be much worse than a tampon.
I just got the cup two cycles ago so I'm just getting used to it. I like tampons because they're flush and go. The cup lasts much, much longer. I went around the city once last cycle with it and it leaked. It's important that the cup is open and positioned near the opening where the walls are narrowest. It's not a female condom or sponge!